If you've been speaking wrongly, you have captivity and calamity on your hands instead of deliverance. That's not God's Will for you. And regardless of how much "praying" you do to get free, you'll stay stuck because your mouth speaking right words is The Kingdom Key that will unlock your door to deliverance.
Thank God, you can start again right now, today, and begin a true journey to freedom in Christ. Just simply have to begin saying the right things. Pray this prayer and start winning, ruling and reigning in life.
P.S. I call Him Dad. You may call Him Father, Abba, Heavenly Father, etc. Use what you're comfortable with. If you need help knowing Him as Father, I have a video series that will help you - ADOPTED: Knowing God as Father.